I’M NOT HERE TO GIVE YOU TEMPORARY FIXES.
I’m here to coach you toward extraordinary transformation in your life, your love, and empowering you toward incredible intimacy within relationship.
And let’s get one thing straight: I'm not here to tell you what you WANT to hear either.
I’m not your typical love guru or traditional therapist who reaffirms comforting stories of victimhood that keep you stuck.
I am a radical life changer, an awakener for deep-rooted healing. I believe in the transformative power of being fearlessly authentic and being direct about what I see happening.
Because I know you crave that liberated life, that deep loving connection that's authentic and free from past baggage. You deserve relationships that nourish your very being and support your personal growth. You deserve a life you are excited to wake up to every single day.
And once I’ve done my job, you’ll not only savor a healthy, vibrant love life, but you’ll also reclaim your sense of self, purpose, and power. That I can promise you.
My coaching superpower is my ability to take complex, confusing life situations and relationships and transform them toward self empowerment and harmony as we navigate through them.
The values I lead with are:
Authenticity
I believe in living life according to personal desires instead of external expectations and pressures.
Determination
I’ve never given up on a client. I stand for your success and hold myself to the same standards.
Compassion
I may be direct, but I also really deeply care. I believe in creating a safe space for the full human experience.
So, how did I get here?
My life 10 years ago looks completely different
from my life today…
I was caught in an unfulfilling, toxic marriage, feeling abused by emotions and feeling completely unloved. But on the outside it looked like I was achieving all the markers of success; I had a thriving career and had just bought a beautiful farm property.
I didn't know what was going on, how I had gotten here and why I felt so trapped, so somebody introduced me to meditation because they thought it could help. As I started meditating, I realized, "Wow. This isn't me, this isn’t the life I want to be living."
I had built the WRONG life.
I was confused and disheartened, recognizing that I was in a prison of my own making and it was making me miserable. I knew something radical had to change.
At first it was hard to know what exactly, but in the final stages of my marriage I had an interaction with someone who showed me a moment of pure unconditional love and support.
And THAT moment changed everything.
I packed my bags, called up a divorce lawyer, and broke free so I could live authentically.
I grieved consciously and clarified my desires with the support of my men's group. I put all my focus on reclaiming my sense of self and joy moving forward.
I needed to learn how I got there in the first place and how I could stop that pattern from ever happening again.
And so, I went on a journey of transformation that led me to become the person and coach I am today; which is someone who has the most beautiful marriage and family, an aligned career, and a deep sense of purpose, freedom and fulfillment.
To go from the end of a marriage, to finding the absolute love of my life and a co-created, deeply passionate relationship took a tremendous amount of learning, personal transformation and determination.
Now, I bring this experience to my work.
Over the past decade, I have dedicated myself to honing my skills as a coach, group facilitator, and practitioner of conscious love.
My mission is to liberate men and women toward living lives of exceptional love and depth within relationship, as well as living a life from a place of authentic expression and deep fulfilling purpose.
More About Me
Who Am I?
First and foremost I am a Husband and a Father. Everything I do in life, is for the future of my children's lives and the depth of love I share with my wife. My life is rooted in family first.
My vibe is:
One part Ram Dass, one part Johnny Depp, and one part George Carlin.
The impact I want to make is:
If I support 10,000 lives to change in my lifetime, it changes 2,000,000 lives in 5 generations. Everything gets passed down through generations. If I empower people with love now, I can make the future a better place for my children and the collective
My favorite quote to live by is:
“Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” - Viktor Frankl
